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Obviously you love him, but try harder to understand him, and not make him feel guilty for not being emotionally available for the kids.
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Dont be our parent. Be our partner. I hate doing work on my own and I would be very happy to have some help. Yes I know ypu would much rather do something else than hold the toolbox and hand me things but I would much rather not do it at all, yet here I am. We all want help. Not need, but want and desire. Be our partners. Be our companions. Dont be like the nagging bitch you see on TV. Life isnt like that.
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